You did not plan to be here.

But here you are. And if you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or like you have absolutely no idea where to start - that is completely normal. Separation and divorce is one of the most difficult things you will every navigate. It’s not just a legal process. It is a grief event. And most people will go through it without enough support.

Maybe you are drowning in information - Google, an AI information rabbit hole, well-meaning friends, the cousin of a friend of a colleague who got a great settlement. Maybe you already have a lawyer and still feel out of your depth or are wondering why you still feel so stuck. Or maybe you haven’t spoken to anyone yet and you’re not sure where to begin.

What you probably know is this: you don’t want to waste tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. You don’t want to end up in Court if you can avoid it. You want more clarity and direction. And you want someone in your corner who will give it to you straight and not just tell you what you want to hear.

That’s where I come in.

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Hi! I’m Shaya

I’ve sat across the table (and Zoom screen!) from thousands of people in exactly the position you’re in right now. I know what this looks like from the inside from a legal, emotional and practical perspective.

I work with a select number of clients globally to help them get clarity, make better decisions, manage conflict and communicate under pressure so they can move through their separation with less stress and cost. I’m a straight shooter. If you don’t need a lawyer yet, we can walk through the other options. If you do need a lawyer, then I’ll work with you to help you find one who is best suited for your goals.

Book a free 15 minute call with me via the link below. I promise there will be no pressure or commitment. If you’re otherwise ready to get started with your transformation then you can book a package to work with me.

I’m a certified DCA® Divorce Coach, Author of two Amazon best selling books and have almost 25 years of experience as a Family Lawyer.

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What is a Divorce Coach?

When you're going through separation, you're making some of the biggest decisions of your life while running on fear, exhaustion, and advice from people who mean well but don't really know. A divorce coach sits in the space between a lawyer and a therapist — helping you slow down, think clearly, and make decisions that work towards your future goals. Not just to get through this but to come out the other side knowing who you are and where you're going.

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Awards & Recognition

“A divorce coach helps you stop reacting and start deciding - so you come out on the other side knowing who you are and where you’re going.”

— Shaya Lewis-Dermody

I heard it through the Grapevine …

"Shaya showed professionalism, care and patience. Her knowledge of family law made what could have been a long and expensive process both affordable and fair. I will happily recommend to others"

— Rebecca

"I doubt I could have held on for as long as I did without your reasoning and expert advice. I could not have done without you guiding me through the process. I will never forget what you have done for me"

— Pete

"From the outset, Shaya allayed my fears and explained everything clearly and carefully. She was professional and supportive - I knew her heart was in the right spot"

— Jude

"Shaya has been very transparent with how to manage such troublesome times, great suggestions to help resolve unexpected hurdles along the way. It wasn’t just the legalities, the whole time was met with empathy and understanding which made this tough experience a much smoother process"

— Shaun

"I was not prepared mentally or financially for the next 14 months of team meetings, phone calls, assessments and counselling however having Shaya on my side made the process much less stressful. She communicated in plain English to help me prepare for every scenario along the way"

— Angelique